My wife, who I drank with alcoholically with for over 20 years, moved out 6 months ago because she didn’t like the sober version of me.
I will admit I was cold, distant and resentful because she was still drinking heavily. I understand her point that I didn’t have a problem with her drinking until I stopped – it was ok for 20 years why is it wrong now?
I recently found out she is in the bars and with another guy – nothing is more pathetic than a 55 year old drunk woman in a dive bar.
I figure any guy that can stand to be around her will have to be as alcoholically sick as she is – any guy over 55 and single in a bar can’t have much going on – and once he gets sex off her he will be gone anyway.
No nice guy is going to deal with her – she is a broken down drunk.
Our 22 year old daughter has disowned her – my wife’s 37 year old son sees my wife maybe 3 times a year – and my wife has blocked me from text and email.
I pray she doesn’t get hurt – she has a lot of trauma and pain that she stuffs down with alcohol – she refuses to get help because she claims she doesn’t have a problem because she works everyday.