I believed all the excuses. It’s been two and a half months. Since I spoke with my mother. My dad is ok. I told her at Christmas that if she continued to take my ex husband side that I wanted nothing more do with her. Of course I was drinking at the time. Now she is in bad health at 73. Should I just let it go? She has been a big factor in turning my daughter’s against me. I asked to urgently speak with my mother.