Biiiiiig step for me. Been clear to me that husband is a functioalcoho,if for years. Drinks 5 nights out of 7, is secretive about his drinking. Hates being challenged etc. The usual story.

We have 2 kids 9 and 12. He shows no sign of wanting to give up. I can’t stand him when he’s been drinking. The smell, the slurred words, his unpredictable moods.

I know I should go to al anon but I’m not ready.

Any quick advice on how to deal? Been looking through the forums etc. Specifically on how to disengage and not create codependency etc.

He bought 4 large cans of beer and a large bottle and had already started drinking at 4.30.im so angry at him. When this happens I just retreat to our bedroom and watch TV.

Why does he think it’s Ok to drink this much??? In front of the kids etc. I am so angry.

Thanks for reading.