SORRY WANTED TO START A NEW THREAD BUT POSTED ACCIDENTALLY HERE> HOW DO I MOVE IT?Yesterday had an interesting conversation with my AH. They just can’t help themselves can they?
He said he know what is at stake with his drinking (quack). He does not drink himself to oblivion, only has a few when he gets stressed as he does not want to go overboard (ahem, quack). I should not go on about the fact that alcoholism is a progressive disease and a slow descent to the abyss. My comments are not “helpful” and will only make him want to drink more (quack).
He was in another city for work and I asked him did he drink much that night (I really wasn’t interested in the answer but wanted to see would he lie to me) and he lied straight to my face. I had seen the bill (in his wallet when he was sleeping) so I told him no need to lie I already knew. He was shocked and then, of course, blamed me that he had to lie because I would ‘react.’ He requested that I do not bring up his drinking at all and then we can be happy (quack). I guess he wants this to be our "new normal."
After that, we went for a very pleasant dinner. I can do things like this with him but not really have any sort of intimate relationship, I have moved into my own room. The lying and shadiness destroy everything.
He said he know what is at stake with his drinking (quack). He does not drink himself to oblivion, only has a few when he gets stressed as he does not want to go overboard (ahem, quack). I should not go on about the fact that alcoholism is a progressive disease and a slow descent to the abyss. My comments are not “helpful” and will only make him want to drink more (quack).
He was in another city for work and I asked him did he drink much that night (I really wasn’t interested in the answer but wanted to see would he lie to me) and he lied straight to my face. I had seen the bill (in his wallet when he was sleeping) so I told him no need to lie I already knew. He was shocked and then, of course, blamed me that he had to lie because I would ‘react.’ He requested that I do not bring up his drinking at all and then we can be happy (quack). I guess he wants this to be our "new normal."
After that, we went for a very pleasant dinner. I can do things like this with him but not really have any sort of intimate relationship, I have moved into my own room. The lying and shadiness destroy everything.